It's a boy....a crying boy!

As soon as I got done post the last post, our phone rang. Go time!
 
We could hear him crying as we came off the elevator. He took one look at us and started to wail. He cried almost the entire time we were with him and had a horrified look on his face. He took the stickers we brought  but wanted no part of the toys we had. We didn't dare hold him. Tomorrow there will be no option and we hope that once we say goodbye to his orphanage staff that he will be able to calm down and get to know us.
 
It is a very good sign that he is so attached and loved by his caregivers. This should mean he will be able to attach well to us. His orphanage direcotr brought us a photo album of pictures (she worte a note in the front for him), a jump drive full of even more pictures, a chinese fan, and a large book about the orphanage. She was so kind.
 
You'll notice in his pictures, that he has a scraped nose- part of life as a boy I suppose! : )
 
We appreciate your prayers as we get him tomorrow. We will be with his orphanage director for several hours doing paperwork so it will be a slow process of saying goodbye. It is crushing to see his sad spirit and I pray that he is able to grieve and begin to relax.
 
Enjoy the pictures.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Praying today goes smoother and that our Lord gives you his peace that passes all understanding to Caleb and to you both. God bless you guys!
Liz Wagner said…
Praying for all of you! Especially Caleb and his tender heart.
Sara said…
Praying that all three of you transition smoothly, and those tear will be replaced by smiles soon!
Shannon said…
Oh mama. We were there almost exactly one year ago. Your pictures bring back memories... We met our daughter twice before family day, and it was nothing but screaming horror. One year later, we have all transitioned and she is doing wonderfully. Prayers for you and your sweet Caleb. it is gut wrenching, but this sweet boy needs a family, and God has chosen you. You can do this!
Jerusha said…
I like Shannon's comment. We were there a month ago (screaming, crying and all)! God's grace, endurance, and peace to you all as you become a family.
Rita and John said…
You've met your son! Praying that the transition will go smoothly. Can't imagine you'll sleep much tonight....
Michelle said…
Our daughter didn't grieve openly until we got home but was very, very quiet and withdrawn the first few days we had her.

Praying that your sweet son will allow you to comfort him as he grieves and that he will learn quickly to love and trust you!
Ashlee said…
Praying for you all and trusting you all into the Fathers hands. Thank you for sharing the journey with us!